The best part about her new-found style, is that she likes to accessorize...like she did here with this snazzy hat. |
As I grow as a mother, I learn many valuable lessons along the way. Sauteed spinach can easily sneak into pasta sauce (without protest) if blended just so, a bigger toothbrush head makes brushing little teeth so much easier, and sometimes you just need to learn when to pick your battles. The latter lesson I have learned the hard way. I have always tried to get Isabel to wear clothing that I thought was cute, stylish, and comfortable. I cringed at the idea of bright pink, princesses, and girly-girl in general. About 8 months ago this became ALL that my almost 4 year old wanted to wear! At first I protested and would bribe her into wearing what I wanted her to wear. She would get a piece of candy and I would get to have a reflection of myself in a tinier version. I knew deep down this wasn't one of my better "mom moments". I also knew that not allowing her to express her individuality could ultimately hinder her growth. So...one morning instead of fighting her against wearing the yellow dress (a gift that she would have gladly worn every day if given the opportunity) I suggested the yellow dress. Then the next day I suggested the polka dot dress. Ultimately it was a win/win situation. I didn't have to argue with her every morning and she got to look "pretty" as she so coyly put it. Besides, I get to still dress Stella as I like!
The notorious "yellow dress" |
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